http://groomasaurus.com/2009/06/does-too-much-planning-kill-the-spontaneity/ Groom Blog / Wedding Blog - wedding planning for grooms Thu, 11 Feb 2010 05:13:36 -0700 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8 hourly 1 http://groomasaurus.com/2009/06/does-too-much-planning-kill-the-spontaneity/comment-page-1/#comment-88 Larry Green Mon, 22 Jun 2009 04:24:37 +0000 http://groomasaurus.com/?p=137#comment-88 Sure there's a happy medium. There's lots of ways to provide the framework for fun at the reception without detailing specifics, which would of course mostly be impossible. Spontaneity cannot be planned, and as long as the sentiment and flavor is always on how wonderful it is that the bride and groom are joining their lives together, then structure away. You can stage all kinds of fun, but you never know just how entertaining the focus is going to be during and after the actual experience eg: that choreographed first dance, a "Newly Weds Game, or a pass-the-mic session. Sure there’s a happy medium. There’s lots of ways to provide the framework for fun at the reception without detailing specifics, which would of course mostly be impossible. Spontaneity cannot be planned, and as long as the sentiment and flavor is always on how wonderful it is that the bride and groom are joining their lives together, then structure away. You can stage all kinds of fun, but you never know just how entertaining the focus is going to be during and after the actual experience eg: that choreographed first dance, a “Newly Weds Game, or a pass-the-mic session.

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